

what a strawman you’ve built. op directly states that he just finds it unattractive


what a strawman you’ve built. op directly states that he just finds it unattractive


op said directly that mentioning it would be in his estimation a ‘direct assault on her self esteem’, and that she considers it a fashion choice. in that scenario yes leave her alone to her fashion choices.


my advice is to take her flowers and let her do whatever she wants with her body unless it’s causing physical damage. you don’t have to find it attractive if you love her like you say you do just suck it up chum. she’ll remove them when she doesn’t want to wear them anymore. Your partner doesn’t have to be a perfect reflection of your ideals of beauty. loving and supporting someone means accepting their ugly favorite hat too.
you said directly that even mentioning it might affect her self esteem so don’t mention it. be supportive


i don’t understand. How are these braces harming you? Why can’t she have a fashion accessory that she likes? She’s literally told you their purpose. Maybe you should work on being more accepting of your wife instead of trying to shoehorn her into a mold that suits you? Literally none of your points seem to support your wife.
edit: i showed this post to my partner of 25 years without showing her my response and she said the same thing I did so I guess that’s why we work together.


i can do it but it tends to use up a pretty big chunk of my conscious


I have to rack a bunch of hooch tonight and start a new batch and i’m going to try this thanks for the advice. i have looked into washing the yeast but it never occurred to me to just toss the few extra cups i get after racking into the next batch.
i switched to raw sugar and made invert sugar with that and it’s the most active batch of yeast i have seen yet so i think it should work well!


my shitty old man would get drunk and wax on about him and his buddies cruising around drinking beers in their car with no seatbelts and dropping the empties through a hole in the floor and the cops didn’t give a fuck and to him that was living


the ssh protocol doesn’t provide any mechanism for your server to identity the client host architecture, nor does it provide any mechanism i’m aware of to send any payloads back to the host client for arbitrary execution.
The thing is ssh is a protocol and it’s implementation is not going to be identical across clients.
So if you found a bug in an ssh client that allowed for this your hypothetical attack vector would only work on intruders using that broken client. ssh is one of the most scrutinized protocols there are and you should be a hero if you found this bug. what you’re asking for, if it were as easy as you might hope, well ssh wouldn’t be the ubiquitous security connection protocol if it were simple like that right?


you can’t know what system architecture is on the ssh client side. It could be a mac, a windows or linux box, android or ios, beos, amigaos, etc.
So even if you could get ssh to pass malicious code how would you know what code to pass?
What you’re asking for is nigh impossible i think.
all cops are bastards
i use safari on my phone mostly, duck duck go for things a little more private


it took me a year of contacting every site that threw my personal info up on google and a few had to be contacted multiple times but i was able to scrub 99% of my presence on the google serps anyway with this method.
It definitely should be easier.


I have been the home cook for 6 people for years on a tight budget so I do this a lot.
For me it really comes down to sales and effort. I really can’t beat a $.99 pound of pasta making it myself, I have tried. So i buy things like pasta, bread, tofu that I could make but the savings if any would be minimal especially after factoring in time.
Instead i use the time to make the more expensive dishes, things like pickled onions and slow roasted meats for my carnivores and compound butters and sauces and dressings. These elevate the meals and i’m able to make them far cheaper than I could buy them so the time spent ends up being worth it.
Sometimes there are sales that move all this math. My kroger just had a sale on salmon cakes, something my meat eaters love but i normally would make myself. But on sale for $2 each, i bought like 10 of them for the freezer they will be massive time savers in a pinch and will come in under what i could have prepared them for because of the sale!
GRiD has been making these ‘milspec’ laptops for decades! I wanted one so much when I was a teenager because they were all cyberdeck looking back then, too!
that is really neat
your Rugged reminded me of GRiD and it looks like they are still in business!
https://www.griduk.com/products/rugged-laptops/gridcase-1590/


i’m very glad to have helped you TropicalDingdong :)

they are listening
instead of discussing the issue at hand (op trying to force his fashion views on his wife) machinefab has created a hypothetical medical situation that he’s arguing against.
Looks like the textbook definition to me, i’m open to being educated though.