「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed)

Permanently migrating to Piefed because sh.itjust.works has too much federation issues…

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Joined 11 months ago
Cake day: June 23rd, 2025


  • Because I’m trying to shred light on fucked up families…

    Because I’m Chinese American and came to the US at a young age and this resonates with me,

    Because I have seen how stressful my parents got…

    Stuggling to make money…

    Rent payments every 30 days…

    And I have memories of mom yelling at me a lot as a sort of emotional outlet…

    Because I, although I don’t know the history of this family, I can imagine what the immigrant experience is…

    I could totally see a timeline where my mom would’ve lost control and murdered me when I was “misbehaving”

    Is shocking how the difference between a struggling family that perservered and survived, and a crime scene that tore a family apart, is just that one moment of rage and losing control under a system that is so rough and causes so much stress and frustration.

    My mom did not murder me in this timeline.

    But here we have someone’s mom who did.

    It’s just very… idk how to say this… intriguing(?) to learn the difference between my family and others… we all came from the same place… similar struggles…

    Yet… such vast outcomes…

    And I also sometimes envision a timeline where we have a “more perfect” family-dynamics.


What the fuck 💀

Now I’m gonna go to sleep worrying if my mother would murder me in my sleep lmfao

And worse, would my dad help hide the body?

Would my older brother help cover it up?

Or like if my older brother murders me, would my parents cover it up?

So many intrusive thoughts lol

Here are some highlights:

On January 9, 2017, Ashley Zhao (born December 30, 2011) disappeared from Ang’s Asian Cuisine, a restaurant owned by her parents. She was reported missing on the same day at around 9:00 PM. Her parents told the police that she may have “wandered out a back door”. On the morning of January 10, authorities issued a Statewide Endangered Child Alert for her. While searching the restaurant, police found her body “concealed” in the kitchen, close to the freezer.

Chen and Zhao were arrested for their daughter’s death on 11 January; at the Massillon Municipal Court, their bonds were set at $5 million each because the judge believed that they posed a flight risk. Although her parents had reported her missing, the police believed that Chen had repeatedly punched Ashley in the face until she died.

Ming Ming Chen taped a video with the police in which she confessed to beating Ashley to death. She talked about how she was exhausted by working at the restaurant and that Ashley had become disobedient.

After informing her husband that Ashley was dead, she tasked him with hiding the body.

During a hearing on October 12, 2017, Chen pleaded not guilty to the murder charge by reason of insanity.

According to Zhao, when he found Ashley, she was lying on the floor with head injuries (that Chen presumably inflicted) and “green fluid” coming out of her mouth. He took her to the bathroom to clean the fluid off her face; by that point she had stopped breathing. He tried to perform CPR, but did not successfully revive her. He also confessed to helping Chen hide Ashley’s body in the restaurant following her death.

Chen and Zhao were sentenced to 22 and 12 years in prison respectively.

From one of thed cited sources:

The detective pressed her for more information, asking “What happened? How did she die?”

Eventually Chen answered, admitting to the officer that she had killed her daughter.

“I just killed her and then she died,” she said.

Chen said that she became frustrated with Ashley and hit her in a moment of rage.

The little girl had reportedly returned from a trip to China to visit her grandparents and, according to Chen, she had become disobedient while she was away.

“I don’t want to do that to Ashley, but you can’t control yourself sometimes,” she said.

“I need to take care of everything from the restaurant. I only have two hands. I’m not four hands girl, I’m two hands.”

When she realised she had killed Ashley she told her husband, Liang J. Zhao, to “take care of it”.











  • Fun Fact: They can deny naturalization to people who claim contientious objection, UNLESS they are actually part of a religion (like you need proof… like a letter from your church, mosque, temple, etc…)

    Like they ask you:

    “If required: Are you willing to bear arm on behalf of the United States”

    Like this is part of your oath of allegiance…

    If they can prove you didnt faithfully take the oath, they can just like… “anull” your whole citizenship…

    Which leads to:

    Fun Fact #2: If you’re someone like me who was a greencard holder under 18 while one of your parents naturalized… TA DA! You are already automatically a citizen… skip the whole test thing… saved me a buch of bureaucratic form-filingbullshit…

    OH, FUN FACT #3: I never officially had to do the oath… I was 13 and those under 14 are not required to do so…

    I actually don’t think they can do any shenanigans against my citizenship UNLESS my mom had “skeletons in the closet” for her citizenship application… 👀

    So yeah… my status is tied to my mom’s… kinda unsettling tbh, like I could lose citizenship through no fault of my own… 👀


  • transfers responsibility for registration from individual men to SSS through integration with federal data sources

    So we don’t have to worry about forgetting to file a stupid form, right?

    Still, failure to register in the draft is considered a crime and can prevent people from receiving state-funded financial aid and employment in numerous states, cause ineligibility for many federal employment opportunities and job training under the Workforce Innovation and Opportunity Act, and can carry a fine of up to $250,000 and jail time for up to five years.

    Bruh…

    Alright, I’m feeling kinda feminine rn and I just wear a pretty dress. They hate trans people right?

    Actually, I’m feeling kinda “zen” right now… I’m feeling the buddha inside me… I think I’m seeing enlightenment!