• AuroraZzz@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6 months

    Tell your girlfriend. If she accepts you, you get married and live a happy life. If she doesn’t accept you, you can find someone else who will accept you. Being transgender is a) much much easier with support and b) something that you can’t waste time with bc hormones are more effective the younger that you are

    • LadyMeow@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      6 months

      Unequivocally this, you will tear yourself and your relationship apart trying to repress

  • Telorand@reddthat.comEnglish
    6 months

    I have a friend who likes both men and women, but the men she likes are more femme presenting. I don’t know you or your partner, so I don’t feel comfortable giving you advice on how you should come out, but you might ask your partner what it is she likes about those fictional characters. Might give you an indication on whether you might be overthinking it or not.

  • TheKMAP@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    6 months

    I have a friend who didn’t want kids, but agreed to have one. Afterwards, her husband came out as a trans woman, and that they knew they were trans even before having the kid. It was a pretty dick move.

    Whether she dumps you or not is not up to you. You can’t withhold this info because you’re worried you’ll get dumped. This is a time bomb.