- 1 month
On a first date I’m looking for common interests, and gauging how easy the conversation flows. Do we feel natural together? Does the time go too fast and do I not want it to end? I want to establish a connection on a first date and leave with us both wanting more.
- 1 month
To know they’re not a bigot of some kind.
My bad for starting a fight.
- _druid@sh.itjust.worksEnglish1 month
I never stated any level of support for them, so I have no idea why you’re directing those comments at me.
- 1 month
Genuine laughter. If we’re relaxed and laughing most of the time, I want to be around that person again :)
- 1 month
I want to see how they react when I put on my robe and wizard hat
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.mlEnglish
1 monthSchool of magic? unless you were a grander wizard then expected.
- 1 month
First date is to see if they can carry a conversation and hold their hooch.
Second date is to see if they can cook.
- 1 month
Second date is to see if they can cook.
To make sure they’re on your level, right?
Right?
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.mlEnglish
1 monthNow im imagining your 2nd date cook off competition with categories to win and judges to score it.
- 1 month
Dont really know because I have been on a single first date and it was with my at the time best friend who I am now engaged to so that isn’t exactly a standard situation
We watched a pirated movie in my bedroom for the first one and the second one was a multi mile hike On a mountain with no cell Service so neither would be a normal early in relationship activities
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.mlEnglish
1 monthI think the first date is exchanging dick pics and stats on grindr. Engagement is when we first hook up. Getting hitched is the 2nd hookup.
- 1 month
I’m going to dump out what I feel they need to know of me. The first sign I get that says “oh…uh…that’s nice I guess” either verbally or by expression, then they’re gone. I won’t try to say things on purpose to get that reaction, but I’m going to lay it down my expectations and I expect to hear their expectations and see if it will go anywhere from there.




