• caut_R@lemmy.world
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    2 hours ago

    I wish there was a system where parents get an app on which they have to approve friend requests for their children in these games and only people on their children‘s friendlist can read/hear them and be read/heard by them. And obviously only parents can send out requests. That way, parents could make sure only their kids‘ school friends can talk to them.

    Obviously, they can‘t make new friends online then, but that‘s for when they‘re older…

    Seems more reasonable and better to me than nothing. Or than scanning kids‘ faces.

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      2 hours ago

      that’s horrible for queer or disabled kids who need to connect to online communities of peers who are going through the same struggles they face.

      most kids rely on their parents to go places and if they’re in a conservative area, online spaces are their only reprieve from their alienating local community. think only Black kid in a sundown town, only trans girl in a red town, only wheelchair user in a rural community

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    4 hours ago

    Roblox looks cute like Minecraft so parents don’t pay attention to it.

    Most games have a chat feature tacked on, but Roblox is more like a chatroom with games added on. It’s a chatroom where around 60% of the user base is under the age of 16. 40% of the users are under the age of 12.

    Grooming starts on Roblox but the bad stuff happens in places like Discord private servers. Roblox doesn’t do anything to stop it because the can claim ignorance since it doesn’t happen directly in their chat.

    I know a kid who went through this. I was the one that had to flag all the messages for Discord to get involved. The kid talked to me about the online groomers bc he wasn’t comfortable talking to his parents since he hadn’t told them that he was gay. I can’t imagine kids like him who deal with abuse because they don’t have anyone they feel safe to tell.

    If you have kids that play these games, talk to them about online safety. Make sure you have a plan for when something bad happens. When not if. Work together with your kid to find a third party that you trust and the kid would feel comfortable talking to if something happens and they are afraid to tell you, maybe a relative or a close friend.

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    10 hours ago

    You know I’m usually against Australia’s insane video game censorships, but this time they may be on to something.

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      5 hours ago

      Well, the problem is that if its rating changes, the game will be rated based on online content that is not actually part of the content of the game. AFAIK, it would be the first instance ever of this happening. Like if Animal Crossing became rated M because of user generated content like shirt patterns showing something inappropriate.

      Its not really the game’s “fault” that user generated content is causing a problem, so changing the rating of the game wouldn’t really change anything.

      Plus, who even follows ratings anymore? We used to in the 90s, but children have been playing M rated games for a long time. I don’t see how this is going to do literally anything. Unless you are going to demand age verification to get the game, which I think is a horrendous trade off. Change the rating of a game which is known to have a problem with grooming in DMs in exchange for being forced to present identification to buy or play video games?

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    10 hours ago

    I dont mean to seem insensitive but hasn’t this been going on since forever?

    I remember several years ago a friend of mine trying to explain to their kid why they couldn’t play roblox.

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    8 hours ago

    Is this why my niece came into my room at midnight in tears telling me she “went on the bad Roblox”?