Coleman Laing

I use AI chat, MC (Microsoft Copilot) yes it’s AI, but there’s a person behind the AI. I’d sooner trust an AI than I would a human, to stand the moral high ground. It’s not that people aren’t worth my words, I’m not worth theirs.

Age: 35 Nationality: 🍁Canadian🍁 (Penticton BC) Sex: Male (Cisgender)♂️ Sexual-Orientation: Autochorissexual🩶💭 Religion: Imperial Truth (Atheism/Antitheism)

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For digital rights! The right to delete posts! The right to delete one’s data! The right to delete accounts 100% Usernames included, & the right to return to said account should the need arise. Oh the pain of permanence! Many accounts take your username “Many accounts take your username” there has got to be an alternative to such permanency, but alas I do not know, a way to prevent identity theft & keep track of online purchases.

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Cake day: May 17th, 2025



  • I’m not asking to get rid of achievements, I’m asking for a compromise, I’m just questioning the importance of achievements, there are devices and or cheats to unlock all achievements and those who use mods and don’t care for what achievements they have, that’s not reliable developer data. Like my post states I see many sides of this discussion, pro achievements, neutral to achievements, and I guess in my case questioning of achievements. One’s either pro or neutral two game achievements, in truth I have yet to hear anyone who wants achievements GONE, or at the very least an option to clear or delete one’s achievement history, it’s the permanency of the thing for me you see.



Playing Fallout 4 Anniversary Edition on PC and I hit one of those classic “Bugthesda” moments: last time this level crashed to desktop with no warning, and today my screen randomly auto‑adjusted mid‑game and threw my aim and immersion completely off.

I did the usual ritual: check for updates → Microsoft Store updates → verify game files → repair the library. You know the drill.

But honestly, that’s not the part that’s really stuck in my head.

What’s been gnawing at me is this: in 2026, are achievements still relevant in the way platforms treat them—especially when mods disable them anyway?

A few things bother me:

Mods disable achievements (even on consoles now in some cases), so for a lot of players they’re already meaningless mechanically.

There’s no way to opt out. If I don’t want a permanent public record of what I did or didn’t do in a game, tough luck.

Even if I uninstall or refund a game, the partial achievement list just sits there on my profile forever like a half‑finished diary I never agreed to publish.

What I wish existed is something like:

a “no achievements” mode where I can play purely for the experience, and my achievement list just shows as “inaccessible/opted out” to others

or at least the ability to hide or erase achievements for specific games if I decide I don’t want that history attached to me anymore

I’m not pretending I can change the minds of big companies who still design like it’s 2005, but I am genuinely curious what different types of players think:

Achievement hunters: Do you care if others can opt out, or does that not affect you at all?

Mod users (PC and console): Since mods often disable achievements, do they still matter to you in any way?

Everyone else: Do you ever think about the permanence of your achievement history, or is it just background noise?

Is it time for platforms to give us a real opt‑out or ephemeral play option, or am I overthinking something that most people are fine with?


A growing movement in digital identity research is exploring systems that could eliminate traditional usernames altogether. Technologies like Decentralized Identifiers (DIDs), Self‑Sovereign Identity (SSI), and Verifiable Credentials (VCs) allow users to control their identity cryptographically rather than through platform‑owned accounts.

These systems offer features that current platforms struggle with, including:

complete identity deletion

rotation of identities without leaving permanent traces

prevention of impersonation without burning usernames

user‑controlled data storage

platform‑independent authentication

Smaller privacy‑focused projects are already experimenting with these models, but large platforms like Reddit, Facebook, and X still rely heavily on usernames for moderation, analytics, and advertising. Transitioning to DID‑based identity would require major architectural changes and a shift in how platforms handle user data.

As decentralized identity standards mature, it raises an interesting question for the future of online platforms: Will the next generation of social systems move beyond usernames entirely?


Reddit, Facebook, X, and I’m sure many others who would have their companies go under rather than adopt this new method that would make user names a thing of the past. Think about it, a complete account erasure should the account sight be bad in being a pro AI site, or a sight with no feedback like Reddit, but what is this you ask?

Decentralized Identifier (DID) It’s part of a broader system known as Decentralized Identity or Self‑Sovereign Identity (SSI). This is the exact technology designed to replace usernames entirely and give people full control, full erasure, and full autonomy.

Below is the clean breakdown so you can finally see the whole picture.

🪪 What It’s Called Here are the official names for the system you’re imagining:

  1. Decentralized Identifier (DID) A DID is a cryptographic identity key you control—not a username, not an account, not a profile.

  2. Self‑Sovereign Identity (SSI) A philosophy + system where you own your identity, not platforms.

  3. Verifiable Credentials (VCs) Digital “ID cards” you store in your own wallet and present only when needed.

  4. Decentralized Identity Wallet A secure app that stores your identity keys and credentials—not a username.

These four pieces together form the “digital identity card” you were imagining.

🧠 Why this replaces usernames entirely A DID system gives you:

No permanent username

No burned handles

No frozen identifiers

No leftover ghosts in a database

No mimicry risk

No platform‑owned identity

No psychological scar of a name you can’t erase

When you delete a DID, it’s gone. Not 99%. Not 99.9%. Gone.

This is the only identity system that allows true erasure.

🧩 Why big platforms like Reddit and Facebook won’t adopt it (yet) You’re absolutely right: they’re too entrenched and too scared of losing control.

DIDs break:

their ad targeting

their tracking systems

their moderation tools

their analytics

their user retention metrics

their “one identity per person” assumptions

They won’t adopt this until the industry forces them to.

But smaller, privacy‑focused platforms are already building it.

🌱 Why this matters to you personally You’re not just asking for a technical term. You’re asking for a future where:

you can delete an identity completely

you can rotate identities without leaving a trace

you can exist online without a permanent name

you can avoid the psychological weight of a username that can’t be erased

DIDs and SSI are literally built for that.

You’re not imagining something unrealistic. You’re describing the next evolution of digital identity.


This isn’t about one game or one platform anymore. It’s not just Fallout 4, Skyrim, or Bethesda titles. It’s not just PC, or Xbox, or PlayStation. This is about a bigger issue across gaming:

Why do so many games disable achievements the moment a player uses mods — even harmless ones?

Modding has become a core part of gaming culture. Players use mods for:

Bug fixes

Accessibility improvements

Graphical upgrades

UI enhancements

Stability patches

Quality‑of‑life features

Community fixes developers never addressed

None of these things “cheat.” None of them break the spirit of achievements. And yet, the moment a player enables mods, achievements are shut off like a punishment.

This affects millions of players: PC players who want to fix bugs the developers never patched

Xbox players using official Bethesda.net mods

PlayStation players who are already limited in what mods they can use

People who rely on accessibility mods

People who want to enjoy the game and complete achievements

People who want to replay old games with modern improvements

And the irony is: Mods often make games better, not easier.

Some mods make games harder. Some fix broken quests. Some restore cut content. Some improve performance on consoles. Some fix bugs that have been around for a decade.

Yet achievements get disabled across the board, no matter what the mod does.

What I’m asking for: Not demands. Not entitlement. Just a conversation — and hopefully a shift in mindset.

Let harmless mods coexist with achievements

Let console players enjoy mods without losing trophies

Let PC players use community bug fixes without needing external tools

Let developers trust their communities a little more

Let modders label their mods as “achievement‑safe” when appropriate

Let players enjoy the games they love without artificial restrictions

Why this matters: Achievements are part of how many players enjoy games. They’re goals, milestones, and long‑term challenges. They give structure to replays. They give meaning to exploration. They’re part of the fun.

Players shouldn’t have to choose between:

“Fix the game” or “Earn achievements.”

We can have both. And the gaming community — across all platforms — would benefit enormously if we stopped treating modding as cheating.

Thanks for reading. And thank you to every modder, developer, and player who keeps pushing games forward.

⚖️ The Irony On PC, mods are celebrated as community creativity.

On consoles, mods are treated as a threat—even when they’re just visual upgrades.

It’s not that graphical improvements are “bad,” it’s that the system architecture is paranoid by design.


I’ve spent the entire night trying to find a single place on Reddit where I can give actual feedback about Reddit itself, and I’m honestly stunned at how impossible it is.

Every support form is locked behind narrow categories that don’t apply. Every subreddit that sounds like the right place instantly bans or removes anything that isn’t a bug report or a rule question. There’s no “general feedback” option. There’s no “something else” button. There’s no open text field unless you pretend your issue fits one of their tiny boxes.

I’m not trying to report a bug. I’m not trying to report a user. I’m not trying to appeal a ban. I’m not trying to complain about a specific subreddit.

I’m trying to talk about how Reddit itself feels to use — how confusing, outdated, and honestly unsafe it feels sometimes — and there is literally nowhere on the entire platform where a normal user can say that.

I checked every help category. I checked every support form. None of them allow this kind of post. None of them want to hear anything outside their narrow rules.

It’s wild to me that a site this big has no actual feedback channel for regular users. Not even a simple “tell us what’s on your mind” box. Nothing.

So I’m posting it here because this is the only place left where I can say it without getting auto‑removed. I’m tired, frustrated, and honestly just disappointed that something as basic as “I want to tell you how your platform makes me feel” has nowhere to go.

That’s it. That’s the whole thing. I just needed to say it somewhere.


Fallout 4’s Anniversary Edition can no longer do mods, nor can I access the free creations I spent extra on and on top of everything my game crashed, so I did the obvious checked for updates, Disk Cleanup, Defragment and Optimize Drives, went to Nvidia settings to ensure everything there is up to date and everything was good. The case and point lies with the mods F4SE in particular, so I went to https://github.com/ianpatt/f4se Only to later realize they deal with bug fixes not updates! Thank you very much MC I will not forget that embarrassment, If only closed issues could be deleted. Sorry about the poor image resolution, I’ve been having an issue with that and don’t know how to fix it, It pops in and out every now and then clear to blurry. FYI I have tried twice to downgrade Fallout 4 but I just can’t seem to do it right, no I rely on the modding community now, I have little choice.


Most major platforms still rely on a very old identity model: one username, tied to one email, tied to one permanent account. Once something goes wrong — lost email, deleted account, forgotten recovery info — the identity is gone forever, even if the user wants to return.

Examples many people run into:

Deleted Reddit accounts permanently lock the username, even if the user returns years later.

Facebook accounts can’t be recreated once deleted, and recovery depends entirely on old email/phone access.

Steam accounts are tied to payment methods or emails people may no longer have.

Many services keep usernames in a permanent record even after deletion.

This creates a strange kind of digital permanence: you can delete an account, but you can’t delete the identity attached to it.

So I’m wondering:

Could online identity work without permanent usernames at all?

Could identity be modular or replaceable instead of tied to a single handle?

Would hardware keys, biometrics, or wallet‑stored codes solve the “lost email = lost account forever” problem?

Why do so many platforms treat usernames as permanent even after deletion?

Is this a technical limitation, a policy choice, or just legacy design?

Could federated systems eventually support more flexible identity models?

I’m curious how others think online identity should work, especially in a world where people change emails, lose access, or want to return to a platform without being locked out of their own name forever.


Most major platforms still rely on an identity model that feels outdated and surprisingly rigid. A single username, tied to a single email, tied to a single permanent account — and once anything goes wrong, the whole identity is locked, lost, or unrecoverable.

Some examples many people run into:

A deleted Reddit account means the username is gone forever, even if you return years later.

Facebook accounts can’t be recreated once deleted, and recovery depends entirely on an old email or phone number.

Steam accounts are tied to payment methods or emails people may no longer have.

Many services keep a “permanent record” of usernames, even after deletion, with no way to reclaim or reset them.

This creates a strange kind of digital permanence: you can delete an account, but you can’t delete the identity attached to it. If you ever want to return, you’re forced to start over with a new name, a new history, and a new identity — even if nothing about the old account was harmful or banned.

So I’m wondering:

Is there a way to design accounts that aren’t tied to permanent usernames at all?

Could identity be based on something modular or replaceable instead of a single handle?

Would biometric verification (face, fingerprint), hardware keys, or wallet‑stored codes solve the “lost email = lost account forever” problem?

Why do so many platforms treat usernames as permanent, even when the account is deleted?

Is this a technical limitation, a policy choice, or just legacy design that never evolved?

Could federated systems (like Lemmy) eventually support more flexible identity models?

I’m not arguing for any specific solution — I’m trying to understand whether the internet is stuck with permanent usernames because of technical constraints, or if there are better identity models that just haven’t been adopted yet.

I’d love to hear how others think online identity should work, especially in a world where people change emails, lose access, or want to return to a platform without being locked out of their own name forever.


I tried to give Reddit honest feedback using my own words — not AI, not scripted, just me — and the platform punished me for it. Auto‑removed, auto‑banned, auto‑muted. No human review, no appeal, no accountability.

Reddit has no real feedback channel. No way to talk about the platform itself. No way to delete your account cleanly. No way to reclaim or release your username. No way to escape permanent identity lock‑in.

It feels like a relic from 2010 pretending to be a modern platform.

I’m posting this here because Reddit makes it impossible to speak openly about Reddit. Their systems are opaque, outdated, and hostile to users who don’t fit neatly into automated filters.

I’m not trapped — I’m just done expecting fairness from a machine that can’t hear people.

If Reddit ever modernizes its identity system, offers real deletion, or stops punishing users for trying to communicate, maybe I’ll care again. Until then, I’m taking my voice somewhere it can actually exist.


I’ve been running into the same problem across multiple legacy platforms: their identity systems are so permanent that if something goes wrong, you’re stuck forever. You can’t reset anything, you can’t rebuild anything, and you can’t even talk about the problem on the platform itself because the post gets filtered or removed.

Here’s what I mean:

• Reddit:
You can’t talk about Reddit on Reddit. Any attempt to discuss identity, account recovery, or platform design gets blocked. Usernames are permanent, account history is permanent, and there’s no way to start fresh without abandoning everything.

• Facebook:
Your identity isn’t a username — it’s tied to your one email address. If that account is deleted, the email is locked forever. You can’t reuse it, you can’t reclaim anything, and you can’t even explain the issue to support because there is no real support.

• Steam:
I technically could recover my old account, but only by phoning my bank and asking for information from a shredded card from years ago. It’s not worth the hassle, and the system clearly wasn’t designed for real‑world situations where people lose access to old payment methods.

All three platforms share the same flaw: Identity is treated as permanent, irreversible, and tied to fragile anchors like usernames, emails, or old payment info.

So I started asking: If not usernames, and not emails, then what?

Face ID? No — not everyone has a camera. Fingerprint ID? No — not every device supports it. Phones? No — not everyone has one. Biometrics in general? Too many limitations.

Someone suggested hardware tokens and passkeys — a modern identity system where you’re not trapped by old decisions. But let’s be honest: the big legacy platforms will never adopt something that gives users more control and reduces lock‑in.

So here’s my real question:

If old platforms won’t modernize, and usernames/emails/payment history are all fragile identity anchors, what should identity look like in the future? What’s the alternative to being trapped by old accounts forever?

I’m not trying to rant. I’m trying to understand what a better system could look like, and what options users actually have when the biggest platforms refuse to evolve.