If you’re keeping the apartment only in your name I think it’s fair only you pay the mortgage, she can pay half of everything else that she does benefit from/has to pay for in her current living situation anyways

Either way this is something you need to talk about with her and see what both of you are comfortable with. Se might not agree to whatever some stranger on lemmy thinks

Get a sleep study done you might need medication or a CPAP

It’s not that unlike what companies were doing to appease the woke gods, a friend works at Salesforce and he had to change the name of a class called Blacklist to something else because apparently they’re not allowed to use the word black in any context in the code