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Cake day: August 13th, 2023




  • You clearly seem to think that personality is at best a minor part of how women choose a partner. For the majority of women, personality is a huge part in them choosing who they want to let into their life, with physical attractiveness coming after that. For the rest of women, I’d be wary about dating them in the first place.

    If you want to find a partner, I recommend you stop trying to find one. Wash up, clean the dishes, go outside, and find people to hang out with. Find a club, do some sport, play some music, or join a church (don’t care if you’re not religious, they’re good places to meet people). If you’re clean, confident, and can hold a conversation for more than a minute, I guarantee most people won’t notice race.

    Also, I get that you’re most likely a rage bait account. I don’t care. I know there are people who genuinely feel like this, so if you don’t care, I hope they will.












  • I get that, but this wasn’t really a “look at the opportunities I’ve missed”, it was more of “huh, my life could have been completely different by now”. I like my job, I like my social life, and I have an amazing fiance that I’m marrying in less than 2 months. I don’t know what would be on my other paths, but I’m glad I chose this one.

    There are some I’m glad i didn’t take. I started a degree in computer science in 2020, and I had plans to focus on machine learning research. If I hadn’t dropped it at the end of that year, I’d likely have finished my degree right at the start of the chat gpt shitshow.


I had this thought after remembering one time that my DT (digital technologies) teacher at high school suggested that some of the class could try join a hacking competition. Nothing ever came of it, but I thought it was interesting at the time.

What’s really interesting is seeing the choices I made, and asking “what if I did the other thing”. Just off the top of my head, I could be still at uni doing research on maths or physics, I could be working on designing new robots for who knows what, or branching off even earlier, I could have been a doctor like my parents.

I’m only 24, so it seems like I might be a bit young for this kind of thinking, but there’s still a lot of things I could have done differently.