So my girlfriend basically had this long time friend for a few years, and the friend before deciding she was straight, said she was bi and had feelings for my girlfriend. My girlfriend thought because she was under 13 (now my gf is 17 and I am 18) while my girlfriend was a teen, that dating would be weird, so she rejected her (nicely) and said she didn’t feel the same. She basically responded by calling her an annoying dog, told her to commit suicide, and that she never wanted to see her again and blocked her on all social media. Good thing, though, that those two were from different countries, my girlfriend being from the USA and her ex-friend Brazilian.

I mean, crushes that you saw all the time and you were close with, and ones that weren’t good people. My ex-crush, this Polish girl I nickname “Helen” on here, turned out to be a Christian with internalized homophobia and was an ableist asshole who hated special education students and made fun of me behind my back.

Hi, so I could use some help. I really like my girlfriend and I want to show my love and make her feel special, but I don’t know how to do it without going into “obsessive” territory. I’ve loved her for two years and every day with her is great, but I don’t know what to do since I feel more obsessed every day.

Not that it matters now, but I’m curious. I don’t know if I was popular. I had a lot of friends in middle school and I would say I did in high school too, but a lot less people knew me as the middle school I went to was smaller.