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Cake day: July 11th, 2023

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  • Do you think she can change and adapt socially? Like do you think she notices and is receptive to working on things if her partner felt a need she wasn’t meeting or engaging with and opened up communication about working on that together?

    Like, you know how generally you can’t change people and people don’t like to change too much once they’ve developed and grown? Do you think she has the capacity to buck that and adapt to things if she knows her relationship is on the line or there are some other interpersonal stakes to it?

    She obviously has enough money and could find a replacement easily enough but do you think she would necessarily play those cards if it came down to it or would she be invested in making things work if was a healthy enough relationship






  • I definitely dont want to continue the cycle, rather I choose to break the chain of suffering. Doesnt matter what happened or who did it previously, I choose differently today

    One of my parents literally used us a passive income source and all the slave labor she could squeeze so I resent her just for that a billion suns worth of loathing and reason for no contact

    And she’s very much the type that will rave about any decision she made (she considers grave mistakes) that allowed me to break free from her shit when she gets frustrated or pissed off I don’t do what she wants which is doubly offensive and grounds for termination ;)