

Some of the features you’re looking for led me to switch to Quicken a few years ago. It’s a legacy desktop app (Quicken Online sucks) and it’s not very fast but it is still the gold standard for personal accounting software. I’ve honestly been happier with it than I was with anything else I’ve tried.
Thankfully Intuit sold it off so they can’t enshitify it anymore.
Something that would actually help you? Lol. No. We can’t afford that.