I feel like too much time will end up with us being like brothers, and too little time will end up with the relationship being forced. I get a warm feeling every time my crush(?) calls me, so I may like him, but IDK. He said sure, maybe if we get to know each other more he’d date me, and I agreed. But how long into the relationship before I consider dating him?
That’s how it sounds to me:
OP says
“I want to explore if a romantic relationship is possible with him”
Guy they talked to said:
“I want to explore if a romantic relationship is possible with you, and it seems very likely that it would be”
Like, if someone said “I’d date you”, like the guy said, that usually means “I’d be a couple with you”.
So, yes, it would make sense to ask what each one of you means :D