• chocrates@piefed.world
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    15 hours ago

    I often offer to use a vibrator with a partner but they rarely take me up on it.
    I really like making my partner cum and it’s so much better at it

    • RBWells@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      I should probably use the alt for this, but whatever, I’m a grownup. I really never liked the stimulation from a vibrator, it is just too intense to feel good, sort of irritating and I am not hypersensitive, either, ok with other direct stimulation, fingers, oral. So it’s not a universal delight.

    • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.works
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      12 hours ago

      Among the women I’ve dated, a few didn’t own any sex toys they admitted to me, a few admitted to having sex toys they wouldn’t show me, a couple were open about having them but didn’t want to masturbate in front of me, one would, and only one chick would do toys plus intercourse.