Let’s be real: most people don’t help others in need even when they are able to. People who donate to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital or volunteer with homeless people do so for performative reasons or to just look good in front of someone; in the end, they are doing so for their own self-interest.
I don’t talk to people about my charity because I don’t care what other people think of it. I imagine there are a lot more people out there like me than you realize.