• Sarah Valentine (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    It’s a social media site. If you “disagree” solely by hitting a “i don’t like this” button then you’re part of the problem. Use your words. Real cowardice is downvoting things you disagree with, without having to make the case for why or do any kind of critical thinking about your own position.

    For example: I disagree with you, but I have expressed it through the above argument rather than with a petty, silent downvote.

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      I don’t have time to write a rebuttal to every mouthpiece with an opinion. Down voting is a quick way to disagree.

          • Sarah Valentine (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            You’ve responded to my every comment so far. Seems like you’re the one who doesn’t know how language works because you think you can tell other people how to use it.

            Which is fine, because not only do I know how language works, I know how the block feature works too. Now get lost, troll.

            • KingOfTheCouch@lemmy.ca
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              Wow. You complained about a petty downvote, then responded with an insult and “I’m going to block you”. Incredible cognitive dissonance here. If a silent downvote was petty, what else could be more petty?

              And just to drive home my point, I’m also going to block *you *after I post this!

              Conversation is such a fucking waste of time in this place.

            • SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.works
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              While I agree with most of your comments in this post, performative blocking reminds me of why I stopped using Mastodon much: so many grandstanding block proclamations over there, which just increases general toxicity with ego and spite.

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          Imagine if you got 12 comments telling you that you are wrong instead of 12 downvotes. That sure would be better!

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      Nah, down voting has a purpose that’s totally uncoupled from that.

      It changes visibility in some sorting methods. This can serve as a way to filter out bad actors, bad actors trolling, and outright nutters.

      It also serves as a partial safety valve. A lot of assholes are lazy assholes, and having them able to vote without interacting further is a very good thing.

      Besides, nobody is obligated to engage at any specific level. Voting is a perfectly valid tier of interaction all its own.

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      You’re standing on a soap box on the street corner. My downvote is me frowning, shaking my head in disappointment, and walking away.

      • Sarah Valentine (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        While I long for the day when a place like lemmy becomes populous enough for it to be a fair comparison, as it stands I’d say commenting on lemmy threads is a far, far cry from irl public soapboxing. It’s more like standing up in the corner of the beatnik bar and quietly booing the poet.